Early Blessings

Received an early wedding blessing from my office Project Manager! ๐Ÿ™‚

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He will be going back to his hometown during my wedding thus unable to attend the wedding dinner…

IMG00186-20090827-1401He gave me a Courts Gift card with $200 Credits! Yippie! Can go buy more stuffs for the house. ๐Ÿ˜›

15 / 3

15 days to my wedding and 3 days to my Guo Da Li (Betrothal)!

Guo Da Li

“The groom and a friend or a matchmaker will pay a visit to the brideโ€™s family, bearing the “bride price (ๅจ‰้‡‘)” and betrothal gifts (ๅจ‰็คผ) in sets of even numbers. The betrothal gifts are delivered up to a month and at least three days before the wedding day.”

What are the Gifts?

Gifts may include incense, rice crackers, sweets (e.g. winter melon, rock sugar), roast pig or pigโ€™s leg, jewellery, tea, lotus seeds, logan, red/green beans, red dates, nutmeg, oranges, pomegranate, lily, wine, bridal cakes, coconuts, betrothal jewellery and other items, depending on local customs, family wealth and requirements from the other bridal party.

The recommended list of items (which is usually decided during Formal Betrothal ๆไบฒ)
* Bride price ๅจ‰้‡‘
* Wedding biscuits / cakes ๅ–œ้ฅผ
* 2 bottles of liquors
* 2 pairs of dragon and phoenix candles (้พ™ๅ‡ค็ƒ›)
* 1 set of si dian jin (ๅ››็‚น้‡‘)
* 24 cans of pig trotters
* 12 oranges
* Sweet food items like rock sugar, melon sugar, lotus seeds
* Diaper ang pow (ๅฐฟๅธƒ้’ฑ)
* Ang pow for match maker (if any)
* Big basket –> for groom to bring the gifts and for bride to return to groom

Returning Gifts (ๅ›ž็คผ) and Delivering Dowry (้€ๅซๅฆ†)
The bride’s family will accept the gifts and return part of the bride price and gifts so as not to present a picture of “trading off” their daughter. The bridal cakes will be distributed to relatives and friends, as a way of notifying them of the impending marriage.

The bride’s family will also send the dowry to the groom’s home with much fanfare. Dowry items may include new clothes, a chamber pot, filled for the occasion with fruit and strings of coins, and other items necessary for a wife to keep house with.

Modern brides may choose to have household appliances, clothing, and other practical items as dowry instead. Just remember to stick the “Double Happiness (ๅ–œๅ–œ)” sticker on all items.

Sis & Mum accompanied me to buy the stuffs on Monday Night. Felt quite bad that Mum have to pay though. ๐Ÿ˜› But, its supposed to be a “blessing that parents gives to the children…….. ” Luckily we got a small gift for Mum… Otherwise… Sis have to help carry the stuffs also… Glup…

The items to be returned (ๅ›ž็คผ)
* 2 bottles of honey or sweet syrup in exchange for the liquors
* A portion of the bride price (ๅจ‰้‡‘)
* A portion of wedding biscuits /cakes (ๅ–œ้ฅผ)
* A portion of the pig trotters
* 2 phoenix candles (ๅ‡ค็ƒ›) –> The bride will will keep the dragon candles (้พ™็ƒ›)

The recommended list of items for dowry (ๅซๅฆ†)
* Pants for groom
* Ang pows for groom’s parents and unmarried siblings
* Ang pow for match maker (if any)
* Towels wrapped up as presents for groom’s parents, grandparents and aunties
* 2 lamps (either battery operated or electrically operated) –> to be lighted on wedding day in groom & brideโ€™s bedroom
* A set of bedsheet to be used for an chuang (ๅฎ‰ๅบŠ)
* Comforter set, blankets, pillows, bolsters (tie together using red ribbon)
* A new set of pyjamas for the bride
* Xi ๅ–œๅ–œ stickers (include 2 big ones to paste master bedroom door and main wooden door)
* Sweet food items like longans, red dates, lotus seeds, rock sugar
* Variety of gold jewellery in a box for bride –> to show to the in-laws, then bride keep after actual day
* Items for the wife to keep house with

    – Baby bath pail
    – Face basin
    – Ruler
    – 1 pair of fans –> Not for Hainanese custom
    – 1 pair of home slippers –> Not for Hainanese & Cantonese custom
    – Spittoon –> Nowadays potty is used
    – 1 Sewing Box with 6/8/12 rolls of threads + needles + scissors
    – Mirror, comb
    – Mouth rinse container

Anyway, there are really a lot of small details to note and everything seems so essential! I think I have forgotten approximately 90% of what the uncle told us.

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Sis took this pic from the album that the shop has.

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Plate for exchange

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The helpful uncle teaching us the sequence of how things should be laid out.

(Note: the towels on the left, its all ours!)

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Ang Pow Placement..

There are a whole load of other stuffs. Did not manage to take pic of everything. Was too hungry to move.

IMG_4525 - CopyHup Kee Company.

Locate at Beauty World Level One. #01-15ย  (Near the washroom)

The uncle has more than 60 years of experience ooo! ๐Ÿ™‚

Don’t Drive

Don’t drive if:

1. You don’t understand the word “responsible”

2. You don’t know how to open your mouth and say sorry when you “nearly” knock into someone.

Seriously, what’s so hard in saying sorry?! You nearly knock into a woman with her kids and you can’t even open up your bloody mouth to say sorry! Wait till I get the car plate number and I’ll post on every portal I know! Humph! Bloody idiot driver!

Yeah!!

Yeah!! Exams are over! Happy Happy!

Now counting down days to 09 Sept 09. ๐Ÿ™‚

But But.. Im alittle sick!

Went to see the doctor and she commented I look healthy?!

Anw.. Just got some meds hopefully will get better soon.

Enjoy! ๐Ÿ˜€

Updates!

Count down one day before my final paper! Arghh…

Lots of stuffs happening lately. Time is always not enough!

Start of August, Ednix is the official key holders of our home! Hehe… Thanks to the early handover from the previous owners, we have began our mini touch up. ๐Ÿ™‚

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Our Keys! ๐Ÿ˜€

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Deciding on what size of TV we should get..

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Ed practicing his skills before any furniture comes in…

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MBR..

P1010314Ed trying to play hide n seek..

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My territory

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Ed’s Work space

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Paintwork in progress

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Our dining view..

P1010335New Aircon is up! ๐Ÿ˜€