My Sweetheart made me breakfast on Sunday!!Though it’s only cornflakes with his “special milo”.. But, no matter what, it’s such a sweet gesture! (Awww~~) The taste of it? Heehee.. So filled with love.. Wahaha…I think the other day I just mentioned to him jokingly that he promised to make me breakfast a few months back.. Before i go for my business trip. Then on saturday nite while we are at the petrol station, he bought 6 small packs of cornflakes.. & on Sunday morning, before we went for our jog, he made me breakfast!! 🙂
Eddie used to have a really tight schedule. As I mentioned before (Have I? Hmm.. ) he is someone who plans far.. & really executes his plans. But no matter how busy he is.. He would always spare time for me. I think within a week, we manage to meet up for like 4 days? (Heehee.. Im his superglue!!) Even on the days that we don’t meet, he would still drop me a call before I go to bed. Just to check out on my day & whether I have any “complain at work”. But recently, I felt I might not have listened much to him.. Hmm.. I seem to be talking alot about my own stuffs… 😛
But, I’m really happy that he is willing to fork the time & effort for me despite his tight schedule. Thus on weekends, i will leave all the time I have for him.. (So sorry for frenz.. :P), This is also the time where we can spend more “quality” time together.
Some who knew about my r/s seems alittle skeptical. Maybe not towards me. Maybe it’s a general view. But, perhaps I could just drop my thoughts here once n for all….
What is the longest period of time that a couple can stay sweet to each other? Do sweet little stuffs for one another? Do you still believe in Honeymoon period?
There is no definite answer for how long one can remain sweet. But isn’t it your attitude and mentality? How you handle things that makes a difference? How you want your partner to treat you should be start with how you treat them isn’t it?
It might also be human nature to take things for granted or demand more once you are with the person for sometime. But.. There is also a choice? Do not to take each other for granted!! Its actually as easy as that. Of course, it takes 2 hands to clap right? Then here comes your communication. Can the 2 communicate well? Or if you are the type that covers your ear when your partner is talking, then do not expect him/her to listen to what you are saying as well.
Relationships are somehow like taking care of a garden. Do you want your relationship to be like a garden full of fresh flowers? Then take care of it tenderly. Shower it with care & love, it will then blossom in return. If you are someone who is so negative and yet expect the garden to manage by itself? Of course every single plant will wither. What do you expect?
*Small gestures count as well. So some sweet stuffs once in awhile.. It does helps.. It could be just looking into the eyes and saying “I love you” or some private moments together at somewhere quiet to just talk.” Do not underestimate these… Sometimes the most simplest thing is what is being neglected the most by everybody.
Material needs are no longer something everyone yearn for. Everyone can earn & buy what we all want. But, it’s the emotion support that is priceless…